B-LUVD Anal Desensitising Lubricant is the comfort-first option for backdoor play, designed for those who want to dial down sensitivity for longer, more relaxed sessions. The water-based gel formula carries desensitising agents that gently reduce nerve response in the area you apply it, easing the initial pinch some people feel during anal play and helping prolong solo or partner sessions overall. Stay-put consistency keeps the cushion right where you put it.
Paraben-free and dispensed from a 118ml bottle with a single-handed teardrop pump, B-LUVD Anal Desensitising is built for thoughtful, slow exploration. It is condom-safe and toy-safe across silicone, glass, metal, and ceramic. Used carefully, it can be the difference between an okay experience and a genuinely good one. Used carelessly, it can mask the pain signals your body uses to keep you safe, so the safety notes below matter more than usual.
What makes it tick
- Water-based gel formula, smooth and silky
- Includes desensitising agents to reduce sensitivity temporarily
- Stay-put cushion, long-lasting lubrication
- Paraben-free
- Toy-safe, latex-condom safe
- 118ml bottle with one-handed teardrop pump
How to use it
Patch test on the inside of your wrist 24 hours before first use. Apply a small amount externally and wait a few minutes for it to take effect. Start with less than you think you need. The desensitising effect builds over a few minutes, so do not double up if it does not feel like much at first.
What it plays well with
- All latex condoms
- All anal toys, including silicone (water-based is silicone-toy safe)
- Solo anal play, partner play, anal training
Important: Desensitising lube reduces feeling, including pain. Pain is a useful signal during anal play, telling you to slow down or change angle. Without that signal you can cause damage without realising. Always use anal toys with a flared base, go slowly, and never push past resistance even if it does not hurt. If you are new to anal play, consider starting with our non-desensitising Wicked Jelle or B-LUVD Anal so you can learn what your body is telling you first.
If irritation occurs, discontinue use. Avoid contact with eyes. Keep out of reach of children. Not a contraceptive.
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